Keeping adults safe

Hate and mate crime

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    Introduction

    Hate crime and mate crime are both forms of bullying that can be reported to the police.

    Hate crime is when someone you don’t know is mean to you because of who you are.

    Mate crime is done by someone you know.

    Here you’ll find out how to recognise hate crime and mate crime and what you can do about it.

    Hate crime

    Hate crime is when someone does something mean to another person because of their:

    • disability
    • race or ethnicity
    • religion or belief
    • sexual orientation
    • transgender identity.

    Mate crime

    Mate crime is a type of hate crime. It is when someone says they are your friend, but they do mean things to you.

    How to get help

    If you think you, or someone you know, may be experiencing hate crime or mate crime, the most important thing to do is talk to someone you trust so they can help you. This could be:

    • your family or another friend
    • your support worker
    • your house warden
    • a police officer.

    How to report the crime to the police

    To report hate or mate crime:

    You can also visit a police station and report the crime in person. Find your local police station on the Humberside Police website.

    More information on hate or mate crime

    If you’d like to find out more about hate or mate crime, or get support following an incident, these websites may be useful:

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    How to recognise hate crime

    Hate crime could be:

    • a physical attack like hitting
    • name calling or offensive gestures
    • threats, harassment or intimidation
    • damage to property
    • nasty letters, emails, texts, phone calls, social media messages or graffiti.

    How to recognise mate crime

    Some things that this friend may do are:

    • ask you to say or do things that may put you in danger
    • want you to 'act the clown' for their own amusement
    • demand money from you or expect you to pay for everything
    • use all the credit on your mobile phone
    • steal from you
    • want you to take part in criminal activity.

    If someone says they are your friend but then hurts you, steals from you or makes you do something you do not want to do, you should tell someone you trust right away.

    Someone who only wants to be your friend because they want something, is not a true friend. A real friend would never take advantage of you in this manner.

    How to spot if someone else is experiencing mate crime

    Some signs to look out for are:

    • changes in relationships, appearance and finances
    • unexplained injuries
    • being involved in sexual acts that have not been agreed to
    • self neglect
    • bills not paid for and being short of money
    • signs of poor mental health
    • missing appointments
    • packages arriving at the person’s house.
    Is someone in immediate danger?

    If you feel that there is an immediate risk to someone who is experiencing hate or mate crime and it needs to be treated as an emergency to stop the person being harmed, please:

    Call the police on 999

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