Family help and support

3.Additional support

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    Introduction

    Sometimes, universal support isn’t enough, and you and your child may need a bit more help. This is called additional support.

    It is usually short-term and tailored, and is designed to give you extra guidance and practical help for your child’s needs.

    What additional support may look like

    The additional support you and your child receive will depend on their needs and what stage of life they are at. Here are some examples:

    Children not yet at school

    If your child is not yet attending school, and you feel they need help with their language and communication skills, you can ask for support from your local family hub.

    One of the ways family hubs can help is to offer you and your child extra play sessions as part of the early communication pathway. This is designed for younger children, usually around age two, and uses simple, play-based activities to help your child build confidence with listening, interacting with others, and early language skills.

    Preparing for school

    Getting ready for school can bring mixed feelings for both you and your child. Your local family hub offers a welcoming space, reassurance and additional support to help you build confidence, ease any worries and make starting school a more positive experience.

    Primary and secondary school children

    If your child is at primary or secondary school, support is usually offered by your child's school and our school and community practitioners.

    They will work with you and your family to provide short-term help. This is to deal with any issues early, before they get bigger.

    Your child's school may also suggest a team around the school (TAS) meeting.

    Family with baby

    “Additional support brings families and services together, so your children can grow, achieve and thrive.”

    When you may need additional support

    As a parent, you often notice small changes in your child before anyone else, even if you are not sure why.

    Below are some common signs that other parents have noticed, and some things that can sometimes be going on at home that may be having an effect.

    Signs that your child may need support

    Some common things you may notice with your child could include:

    Health and wellbeing

    • Worrying about school or friends.
    • Feeling upset or having low confidence.
    • Having trouble sleeping or eating.
    • Using drugs or alcohol.

    Behaviour and boundaries

    • Showing big feelings or finding it hard to manage their emotions.
    • Struggling to follow routines or respond to requests.
    • Finding it tricky to get on with others or make friends.

    Routines

    • Finding it hard to get ready in the morning.
    • Missing school.
    • Struggling with homework.

    Communication and learning

    • Developing early language and communication skills more slowly.
    • Finding it hard to build friendships or connect with other children.
    • Needing a bit more support to keep up with learning activities.
    When home life may be making things harder

    Some things in your family life may raise issues for your child, such as:

    Relationships at home

    • Tension or frequent disagreements between parents or carers.
    • Stress or conflict between family members that is having an impact on your child.
    • Siblings finding it hard to get along with each other.

    Change and uncertainty

    • Moving house or changing schools.
    • A death in the family or serious illness.
    • Financial worries or changes in employment.

    Parental wellbeing

    • Feeling stressed, overwhelmed or exhausted.
    • Struggling with your own mental or physical health.
    • Finding it hard to be there for your child.

    Home environment

    • Not having regular routines at home.
    • Home life that feels busy, unsettled or out of control.
    • Finding it hard to keep things calm and safe for your child.

    How to access additional support

    If you are not sure about how best to support your child, here are some places you can go for help:

    Community parent drop-ins

    Pop along to one of your advice and support sessions and talk to a member of the schools and communities team. These are available at a range of venues across the East Riding.

    Your local family hub

    You can visit any of our Best Start Family Hubs, or contact us by phone or email.

    We can talk things through with you and explore the best next steps.

    Your child’s school

    Your child’s school can provide support in different ways, including:

    If needed, the school may suggest bringing together a team, including health and education professionals, to support you. They will look at the best ways to work with you, your child and other family members to help with any worries you have. These are known as the team around the school (TAS).

    If your child’s school is concerned

    Sometimes your child’s school may contact you because they have noticed changes in your child’s wellbeing, behaviour, or learning.

    This does not mean your child has done anything wrong. Schools get in touch because they want to make sure your child is getting the support they need as early as possible.

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